The Post-Christmas Reality Check
For many couples, Christmas and the holiday period bring underlying issues to the surface. Financial pressure, time off work, increased time together, family expectations, and the mental load of the season can place significant strain on already fragile relationships.
By January, once routines return and emotions settle, many people reach a point of clarity. Rather than acting impulsively, they begin seeking information and support to understand their options and plan their next steps carefully.
This is why January consistently sees an increase in enquiries about separation, parenting arrangements, and property settlements, known by many as the ‘divorce month’.
How Family Lawyers Can Help at This Early Stage
At this stage, people are often not looking for conflict – they are looking for clarity.
As family lawyers, we can assist by:
- Explaining your options early, so you understand where you stand before making decisions;
- Helping you plan parenting arrangements that prioritise stability for children as the year begins;
- Providing practical advice about property and finances, particularly in the current cost-of-living climate;
- Focusing on early resolution, including negotiation, consent orders, and avoiding court where possible; and
- Supporting you through the process with empathy, structure, and clear guidance.
Information First, Decisions Later
Separation is never easy, but having clear information and measured support can make a meaningful difference. For many people, January is not about starting over, it is about finding a way forward, whatever that looks like for them.
Seeking advice does not mean a decision has already been made. For some people, speaking with a family lawyer provides reassurance rather than momentum, helping them understand what separation would look like, and in turn, giving them the confidence to work on their relationship with clearer expectations.
There is no harm in being informed. Whether individuals ultimately decide to separate, pause, or recommit to their relationship, understanding their options can reduce uncertainty and anxiety. Family law advice is not about encouraging outcomes; it is about supporting people to make considered, informed decisions, whatever path they choose.
If you would like to book a time to speak with one of our family lawyers for confidential, early advice, click here to get started online https://lynnandbrown.settify.com.au or contact us by calling 08 9375 3411.
About the Author: This article has been authored by Sarah Ihab. Sarah is a dedicated legal practitioner, known for her commitment to achieving outcomes that are not only legally sound but also commercially beneficial for her clients. She takes a pragmatic approach to legal issues, combining careful analysis with a strong understanding of the broader business and personal implications of her advice. She completed her Bachelor of Laws (Honours) and Bachelor of Arts in Global Politics and Policy with Murdoch University in March 2023, her Graduate Diploma in Legal Practice with the College of Law in May 2023 and was admitted as a Lawyer of the Supreme Court of Western Australia in October 2023.
